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One year is enough

From the perspective of my three year old grandson (the boss), one year of school is enough.  After all, for one year he went to school two days a week, carried a lunchbox, and had the preschool experience.  What more does he need to do?

He will tell you that he is finished with school.  Going back is not what he wants to do.  He likes to make his own decisions and is fully capable of going to the refrigerator and helping himself to a beverage and a snack.  It's pretty much the boss's choice after that.  His day is filled with all sorts of activities.  Play dough, books, computer games, riding his bike, creating pictures, you name it.  He seldom stops.  In his opinion, the world is perfect as it is.  Why mess it up with going to school?

The funny thing is that I remember feeling the same way.  I was sick a lot as a kid, and my mother provided a wonderful stay at home, healing environment.  She brought my meals to me in bed and let me listen to the radio.  Once we had a television set, I got to watch Topper and the Loretta Young Show.  I much preferred staying at home to going to school.  When I think about those days now, they are very special to me.

As the kids go back to school, I think it is important to see things from their perspectives.  Some of the older kids are still little kids inside wanting to stay at home in a nurturing environment.   Going back to school is about more than lesson plans and a new lunchbox.  It's definitely about more than new educational themes and policies.  The beginning of school should be about teachers getting to know their students instead of about all of the latest hoopla the administrators have come up with over the summer. 

Posted: Sunday, August 26, 2007 1:03 PM by Betty

Comments

Eva said:

Betty, You're right!  I want to stay at home and drink coffee and read the paper and be nurtured.

But, when I do get there this week I need to remember to build a good relationship with my first graders as we start the business of learning to read.  I want each of them to feel loved and nurtured----Lord, help me to do it!        

# August 26, 2007 1:29 PM

jtspencer said:

I think that goes to show that children could also use a little more autonomy in their education.  Part of what your grandson wants is the freedom to be a kid.  Although I believe school is important, it seems that it is a fragile balance of teaching obedience and autonomy at the same time.  

# August 26, 2007 11:26 PM

mz.w said:

How's this for nurturing: due to PI, we are testing the heck out of the kids the second day back!!! And these are the benchmark tests, so the kids aren't actually going to know too much on the test. That would be so frustrating to me as a student, being tested on things I haven't been taught yet. Ugh.

I want to build community and get to know them, but no!

And middle schoolers need all the love and care they can get. With a firm hand to get them through those rough patches.

I loved school! Staying home wasn't anything I ever wanted to do unless I was actually sick. I did enjoy my summers immensely though. All that time to sit around and read without interruption between hours in the community pool. Both my brothers were more like "the boss", but I never knew that until we were older. I assumed that since we were all more or less succesful in school that they felt the same way I did.

# August 27, 2007 1:19 AM

MysteryTeacher said:

My 4.5 year old granddaughter went to kindergarten yesterday.  Her little 3 year old sister laid down on the hallway and threw the biggest fit of her life because she couldn't go to.  She goes to preschool next week.  My daughter couldn't just leave her there and walk away because  Big D would have walked right into that classroom and taken over.  She is a pistol for education.

# August 28, 2007 1:26 PM
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