For some reason, we all want to be perfect. Personally, on evaluations, I am always sad and a little defensive if all of my scores aren't at the highest level. Yet, I know I make mistakes and appreciate learning new techniques to improve my teaching. I actually realize that I don't know everything.
We have all watched married couples snip at each other and jump in to contradict each other's statements. "It wasn't five dollars, Henry, it was a dollar fifty and you know it." An argument ensues about a meaningless detail. People roll their eyes and wish they were anywhere but where they are.
I was teaching one of my adult classes last week, and a man was responding to one of my questions. His wife leaned over and nicely let him know that he was a bit off track with his answer. With a smile on his face and sincerity in his voice, he simply said, "Corrected" and rephrased his answer. It was one of the sweetest moments I have seen while teaching. This student seemed to appreciate the help he was receiving from his wife. They responded to each other with respect and kindness.
Here's my point! Come on evaluators. Your goal should always be to warmly help teachers be all that they can be. Sitting in a classroom writing on a yellow pad with a non smiling face is just wrong! Everyone responds well to encouragement and positive feedback. If you are non-threatening, most teachers will want to follow your suggestions and will actually go out of their way to meet your expectations. There is a true art to being a successful leader. Treating others with respect and kindness goes a long way.