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Is Positive Possible?

I would love to be positive about my job! What I mean is that whenever we get together, (in the lounge or in the grocery, or with a stranger on a bus)-we teachers always speak negatively about teaching. I am the world's worse about doing this. But, I notice that other people in other jobs may chat eagerly at parties or on the sidewalk. They are doing this or promoting that, and they are all up about it. Why are we so depressed? Why do we only feel needed and understood when we are griping together? I think about this a lot. It is as if we are all addicted to the frenzy, the wretched wreck of it all. "Who said this? Who is quitting? What are they making us do now?" If you say anything good-everyone looks at you like you've got to be kidding.I have a friend who used to be a teacher. Now, she is a message therapist. She always has exciting good news about her business. Her fellow message therapists show each other how to do a new technique and love showing off their ideas. There are smiles all around and nobody thinks that means they are not serious about their work. It means they like where they are and who they are and what they do. They are positive. Is it possible to be that way about teaching? I used to think that way. I want that back. I want to be proud of what I do and to know other teachers who are upbeat as well. Not sugar-coated naive positive, but realistic, experienced, working positive. That will be my goal this new school year. Who's with me?Big Smile
Posted: Thursday, July 12, 2007 6:21 PM by Samantha
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MysteryTeacher said:

The teacher's lounge is a dangerous place.  It is usually where everyone lets go of their gripes.  I was like you and fell into constant complaints because the people around me were negative.  I quit hanging out there and started hanging with the office staff.  I put a real effort into looking on the positive side of my job.  It took a while but I am very happy now and much more positive.  I am the one who brings snacks in to school just because I know everyone enjoys a treat.  I share positive ideas with my fellow teachers (especially the negative ones)  I share resources with teachers because I have 20 years worth of books accumulated for use.  I am happy to share videos (educational) and anything else they might need.  You can change the attitude.  You can be the one who finds the good and positive in what you do.  It only takes one person to change the attitude of a school.  It is just a lot of work and persistance.

# July 12, 2007 11:57 PM

Betty said:

It is also fun to tell cute stories about the kids (without using names, of course) when you are outside of school.  Maybe people in other jobs vent during the day because they are with adults throughout the day.  

# July 13, 2007 8:58 AM

mimi said:

We don't have a teacher's lounge, but I totally know what you mean.  We have to make a conscious effort to talk about other things and stay positive, which usually translates to NOT talking about school.  I think sometimes it's such an emotional job that it's hard for others to understand so we need to latch onto each other.  I also feel that there is very little room for teacher's to voice their opinions in schools - think about it, we're always being told what to do , when and how to do it and then on top of all of that be FLEXIBLE at all times.  So some of the negativity might stem from constantly being forced back into a box that many of us are ready to outgrow.  I love that you are writing about this.  My dissertation (yes, I'm going to school and teaching...crazy!!) is about acknowledging the voices of teachers and looking at the teachers as individuals who bring values and experiences to curriculum, rather than as a group that needs to be controled by scripted programs.  I get frustrated by the negativityy to, so as an outlet (and as a means to procrastinate from working on my disseration), I created a blog that tries to make those frustrations funny.  More like turning a negative into a positive or at least something you can laugh at.  Check it out...it's called The Chalk Talks on this site, but it's also on blogspot at www.itsnotallflowersandsausages.blogspot.com (dont' ask about the name!!)

Keep writing!!

Mimi

# July 13, 2007 9:00 AM

sellen said:

It's easy to let some of the things get us down, with all that we have to do!  I hate when people say that they wish they could have all summer off, don't you? I never hesitate to tell them that most teachers I know are in summer school or professional development for a good bit of the summer. Then I remind them that we all bring work home after a full day, then most of us work during the weekends on lesson plans, grades, calling parents...

There are some really negative folks at my school who love to complain about everything, so for my own sanity, I try to limit the amount of time I am around them. I have to stay positive for the sake of my kids. I look for the funny things that happen.  Also, my second grade teammates are a great group, and we can vent to each other, then let it go.

# July 13, 2007 6:24 PM

jwag2005 said:

Dave Ramsey says "If your broke friends are making fun of your financial plan, you're on the right track." Similarly, if your miserable colleagues are making fun of your positive attitude, you are on the right track.

I don't get invited to parties or other social gatherings with other teachers from my school. In fact, I was in the teacher's lounge doing some work one day this year during lunch and "the regular gang" evidently showed up to complain. I just sat there doing my work and it was kind of funny hearing them try to avoid saying negative things. I laughed about it after I left.

Check out the video at the end of <a href="http://www.soyouwanttoteach.com/2007/07/01/the-best-time-to-be-a-teacher/">this article</a>, after you finish reading it. :)

# July 15, 2007 1:59 PM
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