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<?xml-stylesheet type="text/xsl" href="http://teacherlingo.com/utility/FeedStylesheets/rss.xsl" media="screen"?><rss version="2.0" xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:slash="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/slash/" xmlns:wfw="http://wellformedweb.org/CommentAPI/"><channel><title>Search results matching tags 'teacher' and 'personal well-being'</title><link>http://teacherlingo.com/search/SearchResults.aspx?o=DateDescending&amp;tag=teacher,personal+well-being&amp;orTags=0</link><description>Search results matching tags 'teacher' and 'personal well-being'</description><dc:language>en-US</dc:language><generator>CommunityServer 2.1 SP2 (Debug Build: 61120.2)</generator><item><title>Supporting  Teachers My Way</title><link>http://teacherlingo.com/blogs/welleducator_blog1/archive/2011/05/07/supporting-teachers-my-way.aspx</link><pubDate>Sat, 07 May 2011 17:03:00 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">2d57f927-24f1-4f58-a78a-cbbebe5f5d42:483066</guid><dc:creator>welleducator</dc:creator><description>&lt;p&gt;The Institute for Educator Wellness has added a new division - &lt;a href="http://www.teachablemomentscoaching.com"&gt;Teachable Moments Transition Coaching&lt;/a&gt;.&amp;nbsp; &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I will be offering wellness classes and coaching just for educators, because, let's face it, we have a tough job!&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;</description></item><item><title>Wellness Article in Teacher Magazine</title><link>http://teacherlingo.com/blogs/welleducator_blog1/archive/2010/10/07/wellness-article-in-teacher-magazine.aspx</link><pubDate>Thu, 07 Oct 2010 19:28:22 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">2d57f927-24f1-4f58-a78a-cbbebe5f5d42:364916</guid><dc:creator>Anonymous</dc:creator><description>&lt;p&gt;Today, I am referring you to an article in Teacher Magazine written by Elena Aguilar.  She gives some tips for surviving what she refers to as “October Exhaustion,” but the tips are excellent wellness tips for educators any time of year.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Click here to visit &lt;a title="October Exhaustion" href="http://www.edweek.org/tm/articles/2010/10/06/tln_aguilar_octoberexhaustion.html?r=2002298090" target="_blank"&gt;Teaching Secrets: Managing October Exhaustion&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;Anxiety is a very real concern for educators.  We work in one of the highest stress environments out there – right up there with nurses and police officers among others.  I think it’s simply the nature of working with large numbers of people.   How do you handle anxiety?&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;First of all, step back and assess your anxiety levels.  Some people are comfortable simply being reflective of their state of being.  Others like a more focused approach.  Axis-One provides a &lt;a title="Anxiety Assessment" href="http://www.axis-one.com/anxiety/free-anxiety-assessment.html"&gt;free online anxiety assessment&lt;/a&gt;.  There are others out there, but I like this one because it is ‘quick and dirty.’ (No comments from the peanut gallery, thank you.)&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Start with that.  Where are your anxiety levels?&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;This comes from a &lt;a title="Mini Meditation" href="http://www.prevention.com/stay-calm-solutions/list/1.shtml" target="_blank"&gt;Prevention article by Sarah Mahoney&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;h3&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight:normal;"&gt;&lt;em&gt;“ Sit upright, focus on your breath, and pay attention to a physical sensation, such as the feel of air in your nostrils. When your mind wanders, notice the disruption, then return your attention to that simple sensation. Jha herself now meditates 5 to 10 minutes at a time, several times a day.” – &lt;/em&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight:normal;"&gt;Amishi Jha, PhD, an associate professor of psychology at the University of Pennsylvania&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/h3&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight:normal;"&gt;Give it a try.   This professor says that she has encountered Marines who do this even while deployed in a war zone. If they can do it, you can too.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;Take a moment and take the pulse of your current life.  This is a good exercise for writing down in a journal or on a piece of paper.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;ol&gt;
&lt;li&gt;What is your greatest achievement so far?&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;What is the best thing about being your age?&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;What is the worst thing about being your age?&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;/ol&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Now, look over your responses.    Take a few moments and think about where you are headed.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;ol&gt;
&lt;li&gt;What would you like to achieve yet?&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;What are some things you look forward to in the coming years?&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;What are some cycles you’d like to break?&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;/ol&gt;
&lt;p&gt;This should give you some food for thought in goal-setting.   Remember, if you never set goals, you will never reach them.&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div&gt;&lt;em&gt;Guest post by Ben from &lt;a title="Technology In Class Blog" href="http://www.technologyinclass.com/blog" target="_blank"&gt;http://www.technologyinclass.com/blog&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Teachers are highly wired professionals.  Technology is a huge part of our job.  We have to answer e-mails from students, teachers, parents and administrators, input grades and attendance in programs like gradebook and blackboard, update our class blogs, plan with and incorporate educational technology into our daily teaching.  Then when we get home, we’re on facebook, we write personal e-mails, and we read our favorite education blogs.  Whew!  I’m tired just thinking about it.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;In a technologically driven profession like teaching, an intentional technology break is essential.  If we don’t make the break intentional, we’ll default to checking facebook or e-mails when we have any downtime.  We know that even when we take a walk there’s the danger of looking down at our smartphones or listening to our mp3 player instead of looking up at the sky and listening to the sounds of nature.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;The technology break has to be intentional so that our minds can rest.  Glenn Gould had a theory.  He said that for x amount of hours he spent with people he would have to spend x amount of hours alone.  I would say the same about technology.  For x amount of hours you spend on your laptop you have to spend x amount of hours with human beings or by yourself apart from technology.&lt;br /&gt;
Here are four suggestions to build a peaceful mind on your technology break:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;ol&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Sit or lie down and let your mind wander.  Get into a technology-free place (not at your computer desk), and let your mind go where it pleases.  Don’t stop it, but notice it and let it go.  Notice what you notice.  Catch yourself thinking.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Breathe.  I learned this technique as a teenager from Dr. Weil.  He calls it the 4-7-8.  I practice this a little before bedtime as it is a relaxing exercise.  It’s easy and it works:&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;/ol&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;p&gt;·         Exhale completely through your mouth, making a whoosh sound.&lt;br /&gt;
·         Close your mouth and inhale quietly through your nose to a mental count of four.&lt;br /&gt;
·         Hold your breath for a count of seven.&lt;br /&gt;
·         Exhale completely through your mouth, making a whoosh sound to a count of eight.&lt;br /&gt;
·         This is one breath. Now inhale again and repeat the cycle three more times for a total of four breaths.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;ol&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Red tea.  I discovered red tea (a.k.a. rooibos) when I was looking for a salubrious decaffeinated tea.  I drink this at night.  According to South African Rooibos Council, red tea’s chemical properties may help alleviate digestive problems, allergies, and anxiety.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Walk.  Take a technology-free walk.  Walk with another beloved human or a pet.  Leave everything else at home.  Notice what you notice.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;/ol&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Now it’s your turn.  How do you spend your technology break?  What suggestions do you have for those of us who can’t pull ourselves away from a screen of some sort?&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;So this is your reminder to slow it down this weekend.  Take the time to do something to take care of yourself in some way.  Only you know if you need to quiet your mind, get some exercise (or more sleep) or if you just need a good laugh.   Whatever it is, take some ‘me time’ this weekend.  It’s all about refilling your reservoir.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I’d love to hear what you will choose to do.&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;I stumbled upon this one blog – the author IS burned out in her job.  She has applied for a different job, and has totally checked out of the current one, showing up in body only.  From her own description she has one crappy attitude.  Then she has the audacity to complain that nobody pays attention to her.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Frankly, I can’t blame them.  I wanted to put my eye out with a sharp stick rather than read any more of her whining.  Being the problem solver that I am though, it got me thinking.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I have been in situations where I hated my job.  We all have.  One of the things you can do to make a horrid work situation more tolerable for yourself, others, and the situation is to stop looking inward, and start looking outward.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Observe&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;ul&gt;
&lt;li&gt; The people with whom you work&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt; The boss&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt; The tone of the work environment and how it changes throughout the day&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;/ul&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Reach Out&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;ul&gt;
&lt;li&gt; Initiate conversations&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt; Listen to others, and let them know you heard in some way (paraphrasing can be a bit overkill, so get creative about this.  Asking more questions about what was said shows your interest.)&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt; Remember some detail about what you were told, use it in conversation with that person to let them know you remember&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;/ul&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Practice Kindness&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;ul&gt;
&lt;li&gt; Show interest in other people&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt; Do something nice for the group or more quietly for an individual&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt; Do something nice anonymously for someone who needs a little boost&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;/ul&gt;
&lt;p&gt;When you practice kindness,&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;ol&gt;
&lt;li&gt;you take your attention off of your own ‘misery.’  (As one of my friends frequently says “&lt;em&gt;Get over yourself!&lt;/em&gt;“)&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;you can watch the atmosphere of your work environment change for the better.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;perhaps the job will not improve, but there will be at least something enjoyable to look forward to, making it a little easier to endure.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;you will develop a strong, positive reputation amongst your peers and your employer – making you a desirable employee.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;/ol&gt;
&lt;p&gt;My daughter shared this with me, and I think it is an appropriate sentiment.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="text-align:center;display:block;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://welleducator.wordpress.com/2010/09/20/avoid-burnout-practice-kindness/"&gt;&lt;img src="http://img.youtube.com/vi/hSJhQ8Sisbc/2.jpg" alt="" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Give it a try.  See how acting with kindness changes your world.&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;I’m trying to stop with the coffee.  Not caffiene – but coffee. It’s been the bane of my existence since my early teaching days back in the mid 80′s.  That’s where it started actually, with that horrible Folger’s type of brewed coffee the school provided.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;There is so much evidence out there that coffee just isn’t that good for you, though, if you look. Some researchers contend that coffee is good for you.  I would question that assertion.  I also wonder who is paying for those studies.  I know it’s not as harmful as say, cigarettes or cocaine or meth or something like that, but are we sure about that?&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;p&gt;“just one caffeinated drink – whether it’s a soft drink, caffeinated tea or coffee – will put your body on the &lt;a href="http://www.naturalnews.com/caffeine.html"&gt;caffeine&lt;/a&gt; rollercoaster. When you consume caffeine, the drug begins its effects by initiating uncontrolled neuron firing in your&lt;a href="http://www.naturalnews.com/brain.html"&gt;brain&lt;/a&gt;, according to Stephen Cherniske in his book, &lt;em&gt;Caffeine Blues&lt;/em&gt;. This excess neuron activity triggers your pituitary gland to secrete a hormone that tells your &lt;a href="http://www.naturalnews.com/adrenal_glands.html"&gt;adrenal glands&lt;/a&gt; to produce adrenalin.”  excerpt from The Hidden Dangers of Caffeine &lt;a title="Hidden Dangers of Caffiene" href="http://www.naturalnews.com/012352.html"&gt;NaturalNews.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;So while I know that coffee causes me no end of stomach problems, and certainly hypes me up, making me talk like Twitchy the Squirrel from the movie Hoodwinked when I have the caffeinated variety – the plain and simple fact is, I like the taste of coffee.  I like the social aspects of meeting a friend for coffee.   I have no end of emotional attachment to pie and coffee.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Yet, it really torks me off when Starbuck’s refuses to brew decaf in the afternoon (isn’t that when most people want decaf?)  and insist instead on giving you a decaf espresso drink? Think there’s more caffeine in that?  You bet there is.  A few years back Starbuck’s was in hot water for spiking their tea products with extra stimulants, so I don’t put anything past them. They are as bad as the cigarette companies when it comes to addicting people…..  and when coffee houses in general started charging about $4 for lattes.  Another good reason in the ‘quit’ category.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;So, how can I go about this in the most successful way possible?&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;The first part, I”m finding is behavioral.  I have to stop habitually going to coffee houses.  There are enough tea houses in this area that if I really want a suitable place to get out and visit with my friends, a tea house will suffice.  And, I can start limiting my coffee intake at home, by being really really disciplined, and making a smaller pot of coffee the night before, setting the automatic brew feature on my pot.  Maybe I should get one of those “coffee for one” setups.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;The second part has to be mindfulness.  I have to be attentive to the way I think about coffee, and the way I treat coffee.  Think of all the money I would save if I do not drink it at all.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;And the reason I’m putting it out there for you all to bear witness to?   If you all know about it, then I HAVE to hold myself accountable.  I don’t want one of you to catch me drinking coffee now that I’ve told you I’m trying to quit.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Have you ever tried to quit an addiction?  How did that go?  What was successful for you?  I’d love to hear what you experienced.&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;Here is a way to take control and de-stress in an instant.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;div id="attachment_479" class="wp-caption alignright" style="width:160px;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://welleducator.files.wordpress.com/2010/09/relax.jpg"&gt;&lt;img class="size-thumbnail wp-image-479" title="Relax" src="http://welleducator.files.wordpress.com/2010/09/relax.jpg?w=150&amp;h=139" alt="" width="150" height="139" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;p class="wp-caption-text"&gt;Remember to Slow Down&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;ol&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;em&gt;Awareness: Get in the habit of informally monitoring your stress levels.  When you are in the throes of some activity mentally note how you are doing.  Is your breathing shallow?  Do you notice tension in your muscles?  Is your brain going at light speed?   This is all a sign your adrenalin is kicking in.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;em&gt;Imagine: Visualize yourself in a relaxed state.  You are breathing more deeply and slowly, your muscles relax some, you tell yourself to slow down.  It will begin to happen.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;em&gt;Spot Check:  A few more time throughout the day, check yourself.  How are you doing?  If your stress levels are back up there, then try the visualization again. &lt;/em&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;/ol&gt;
&lt;p&gt;By helping yourself to relax, you will help oxygen to get into your body, and more importantly, your brain. This will help you make better decisions.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;On top of this, you will keep your body from making that “emergency adrenalin” reaction, which in turn will help you keep from developing a whole host of stress-related health issues.  Best of all, it only takes a few seconds.  As you practice this process, you will be able to elicit a relaxation response more quickly.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Give it a try.&lt;/p&gt;
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